4 months sober from alcohol and feeling great. For the past five years, Ive tried to keep my drinks to fewer than 7 a day. This is the longest stint I can ever remembervery sad. Journal of alcohol and drug education. Try reading Allen Carrs the easy way to control alcohol OR listen to his audiobook, same title. Tomorrow is my 39th birthday. Days 30 and beyond: Cravings may continue but improve over time depending on how much and often you used to drink, Berens says. I never saw my dad sober too much ad he had better reasons to drink like Vietnam I also endured countless hate filled speeches that drove me to believe in the white race is the best race mentality. High blood pressure. I was an every day drinker for about 13 years! If I feel like something special I grab a cold one of those and reward myself with that! 6 Weeks Without Alcohol You may have higher thinking and problem-solving skills, memory and attention than those who are still drinking alcohol. and who knew I had such a sweet tooth. You might think now that I have been six months sober, what happens next? It shows how much alcohol ages you, and Im so happy about the difference in my appearance. From sleep and clear skin. There have been times when Ive really fancied a Pale Ale, but they pass and quickly too and at 16 weeks, I think Im doing ok. Zero weight loss, more of weight gain. I also really liked very expensive beers and I have noticed my spend going down and i have lost about 20 pounds. Im glad to have found this site. Grace and Mercy be unto you. Sleep better, get more done, lost ony 3 pound up to now. For people who have experienced weight gain due to drinking excess alcohol, weight loss may be part of the AF (alcohol-free) experience. Abstaining for 12 months is a massive achievement so celebrate your success whatever it may look like. Seeing the struggles and challenges faced by other people will remind you how far youve come, how miserable being addicted felt like and why you need to only go forward. I drank nearly every day previously some wine each day. One of the surprising side effects of giving up alcohol is that your skin may start to look better. First of all, the clearest sign of too much alcohol is a hangover. Six weeks free from alcohol at the moment,one year is the goal!! Initially wanted to target 40 days, but now considering a much longer period. After Six Months: After half a year without drinking, you will really start to reap the rewards. I started running. Target set to go to Xmas. Watched someone drink a bottle of wine in front of me last night. The day before NYs Eve 21, I stopped drinking alcohol completely. Your immune system is also functioning better, and your liver is loving life at this point too. We all have a spirit inside that is power to overcome anything. Published 2018 Dec 5. Im 2 months and 10 days AF and as someone who works in a liquor store and drank heavily daily for about 7 years, I am incredibly proud of myself for my progress thus far. He stopped eating and drank a handle a day. It matters that you did. ~ Cassandra Clare. Im not smug because I know this is a long journey. Every morning when I open my eyes now, I feel gleeful that I made it another day. I was a very heavy drinker. GL all! You will save a fortune as well. After a decade or more of nightly red wine consumption that culminated in two bottles a night, I am trying to stop, or at least cut it in half or less. it was like a plague of locusts moved through the house. And once I hit that I honestly cant see me ever drinking again. Over the past 30 years he has worked in various leadership roles in privately held organizations and private equity portfolio companies. Increased mental clarity often appears after a few weeks and partly this comes from better sleep. Needless to say, I wasnt taking shots and drinking jungle juice with my mom and little sister. Am losing weight but thats due to diet and excercise everyday. Continue using the strategies, tools and support team that has helped you get this far and dont hesitate to reach out for support when you need it to stay on track. This is the number 1 for me and what keeps me going. it changed my whole outlook on life! MAY WE CELEBRATE A NEW YEAR TMI no more constipation. My prayers are with us all. I try not to beam so much around old friends who were old drinking buddies, including my wife, who still loves it. One of the best things about giving up alcohol is that you may find yourself feeling happier overall. The gains are amazing. Nothing changed unless you look closer at the can. Drinking is so normalized and is a part of British culture. However the content is nice. Thanks for this article. Dont expect these great things though. So I just replaced it with yummy drinks. Since returning to work the desire has returned but choose not too drink, not sure why the urge came back as I do love and appreciate my job so much. To find out more about how we use cookies, see our, After 3 months, your liver will continue to experience that relief as mentioned above. Alcoholism makes your body full of toxins and dependent, causing a lot of harm to it. That's when I realized that I didnt want to drink alcohol anymore. John C. Umhau, MD, MPH, CPE is board-certified in addiction medicine and preventative medicine. It might mean the ability to get up earlier and get more done in the day. Wishing you the best! 2020. It will get up eventually give it about 6months. At least I must be getting healthier (from what Ive read in articles). An Alcohol-Free Year: Insights from My First 6 Months | Better Humans 500 Apologies, but something went wrong on our end. Relief on your liver gives it an opportunity to stay well and minimise any damage that alcohol might have been trying to cause. "Being sober will actually help you sleep and have you feeling more restful and energized in the mornings," says Zeitlin. I am 3 months AF this week. I have found that changing your routine is absolutely key, so when you would normally drink, have something planned that will get you through this period. At night, I no longer craved carbs and fat. So heres how you can keep yourself motivated for your first 6 months and long term sobriety: Enrolling yourself in a sober program will help you keep tabs on yourself. Im not a heavy drinker. This article wouldnt get someone out of bed in the morning. The next day I stopped. I was a daily physically and mentally addicted alcoholic. I will do anything. Is very very difficult to start off with but gets better with time as the body starts to heal itself. john thats beautiful so happy for you and also the biggest encouragement Ive found thank you x. Last blood test said Im not in peri-menopause which was a couple of years ago. My withdrawal symptoms are kicking in big time now. McKenzie Maxson, as told to K. Aleisha Fetters. I quite for 4 years when I stopped smoking so that I wouldnt have a weak moment. Very soon after that I stopped, and am now nearly 5 months with no drinking. 6. Day 53 of being sober sleep is finally coming back feeling way more refreshed when I wake up. Lockdowns dont help. They got him to the hospital. Diane. One of the unexpected benefits of giving up alcohol is that you may find yourself more productive than before. Stay positive, keep going forward and take one day at a time. Anyone out there with similar circumstances I urge you to get your life back. One month alcohol free and completely surprised by how much better I feel both physically and emotionally. I drank 1/3 of a handle a day. I had attributed much of this to menopause but now I sleep a bit better, definitely have more clarity, more energy and have essentially replaced my drinking time with exercise. Content is reviewed before publication and upon substantial updates. I hope nope I know Ill be there in about 2.5 months. Life physically and mentally so much better. Your worries and problems are still there, they still need to be dealt with, but with a clear head and guilt free mind are easier. Any advice? 6 Months Sober The Occasionally, I just awkwardly sipped it because I didnt want to say no and have to explain why. And I hated the fact that I was normalising drinking for them. They have annual group meets, and other practices that will give you something to look forward to and keep reminding you that staying sober is worth it. My appetite decreased dramatically. I know i can have a drink.but do i really want one.? No bargains, no games, no deals, no BS. 100% in the past, or as I like to say, AF AF!! I find that one drink doesnt keep me from making healthy decisionsand its much easier to stop after one than after two or three. I think a lot of us picked up alcohol in our teens, when we were supposed to be learning how to socialize without drinking, we instead did drink and it became the crutch. Alas NO weight loss, NO skin glow. I skip margaritas, rum and Cokes, or anything else thats overloaded with sugar. 2. I always knew I needed to stop drinking and never thought Id be able to. 3 Months 3 months of not drinking reduces your risk Carry on with strength all its worth it. As far as Im concerned, thats not worth missing out on. Goodman GD, Kaufman J, Day D, et al. I feel nothing short of super human. After I became single, I started drinking a lot at home. Daily Tips for a Healthy Mind to Your Inbox, Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) National Helpline, Regional brain volume changes in alcohol-dependent individuals during early abstinence: associations with relapse following treatment, Impact of Smoking and Alcohol Use on Facial Aging in Women: Results of a Large Multinational, Multiracial, Cross-sectional Survey, Update on Osteoporosis Screening and Management, Neurocircuitry of alcohol addiction: synthesis from animal models, Effect of Alcohol on Hippocampal-Dependent Plasticity and Behavior: Role of Glutamatergic Synaptic Transmission, Neighborhoods, alcohol outlets and intimate partner violence: addressing research gaps in explanatory mechanisms. Today is 8 months free. But now, thanks to my drink-and-sleep-it-off schedule, I was forced to exercise later in the afternoon. As I lay in bed now, life is looking good, Im feeling positive, only I can screw this up. J Clin Aesthet Dermatol. I believe both have been huge influences on who and where I am today. I dont have much of an appetite and I have lost 25 lbs. Saitz R. Introduction to alcohol withdrawal. Eating well, before it was mostly booze calories. The groups are a learning experience with counselors who know what they are talking about because theyve been thru it already. Now, as the In reality of course I was not asking for help in everyday tasks and that overload of work was creating my stress so I felt that a drink was a just reward, and although I resisted the call it was hard a few times. Think about quitting at times but because of life circumstances nothing takes the edge off like a couple of beers. If not I would suggest that you go for an exam ..just to be on the safe side. We all need different amounts of different things. Heres why you should celebrate being sober: This is to remind you that everything youve done is worth it. Surround yourself with people who care to take care of their health. Hi. Dig deep, stay focused because if I can do this, you can also. I have a work party next month and im taking the car because i aint drinking and dont want to ruin how good it feels not to drink. However, when you stop drinking, your risk of developing these diseases decreases. After 3 months, your liver will continue to experience that relief as mentioned above. I am letting go of all mind altering substances to include coffee. It feels the same as a nicotine substitute for smoking would be so maybe I havent stopped in my head. I hope continued better treatment of my body fully normalizes the BP but I will continue to trim down which will also help. Whether it's a glass of wine with dinner or a couple of beers while watching the game, alcohol can be an enjoyable way to relax and socialize. It was hard to limit at first, but now it just feels normal and Im not thinking about booze all the time. I also started IF and have list all the weight I gained. I mean they have a sixth grade education and have never heard the word scholarly. But its still come down quite a bit vs day one. I just stay away from drinking and friends who live in the bar scene 3x a week. Its not all about me anymore. I didnt crave anything except red wine (I used this as part of my denial that I even had a problem). Now, Im spending a lot more time with family and friends and taking up hobbies Ive always wanted to do but would always put off. Im so excited and optimistic about my future for the first time in years! Next its the 60 pounds I gained since 2016 Im nearly 6 months ! My hubby is proud of me, has really cut back his drinking, but hasnt quit. My healthy crutch has been sparkling water in a can. Not sleeping any better then normal. Good luck to you! One day @ a time, friends. First 4 months were really difficult with all the chemical changes in the body and withdrawal symptoms eg: anxiety/ depression. Looking forward to spending more time gardening, playing with the kids and being a good husband to a wonderful, supportive wife. I lowered my bad carbohydrate intake and focused on vegetables and fruit along with my favorite lean meats. Another benefit of giving up alcohol is that your mind may be clearer. But I truly believe third times a charm. During Covid, golf was our oasis, take off the masks, breath the fresh air and have a beer and a small sense of normalcy. However, every couple of months or so, usually when a special occasion pops up, Ill enjoy one glass of wine or a simple cocktail (like a vodka soda). Smugness has been another feature and Im not ashamed of that and the longer I abstain the more it will grow and I dont apologise for that. Even if you don't drink heavily but like to enjoy one drink per night (which is defined as moderate drinking, BTW), even doing a dry January may improve your food choices and therefore your weight, sleep quality, mood, and performanceboth in the gym and at work, Ziegelbaum says. Ive put this down to lockdown and having worked from home since the start of Covid-19 and needing to relax, this obviously isnt helping though. Instead, I realized Sobriety was something I had. But its fine I dont like people that much anyways. Once again, well done bro. I can honestly say I do not miss the liquid I used to seemingly not be able to do without. I also want to say congratulations to many of you that have posted! Have lost 11 kilos, sleeping much better and while I still forget what I was going to do next it comes back to me much quicker. His wife and kids left him during Covid. Thank you everybody for your posts. 7 weeks AF. If you only indulge occasionally, withdrawal won't have as big of an impact, but your body will still detox from the booze. I feel so much better, mentally and physically and Ive lost 45lbs!! I had gone carefree for two years until my PCP had concern about my liver studies. For over 20 years Dr. Umhau was a senior clinical investigator at theNational Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholismof the National Institutes of Health (NIH). Front Behav Neurosci. I have been experiencing horrific night terrors did anyone experience the same? Ive quit for various reasons in the past after the accomplishment I was back to my pretty wine glass and wineing down (pun intended). You may also have a decreased appetite, nausea, and vomiting, says Rebecca Berens, MD, a primary care physician with Vida Family Medicine. 2.3. Im a health care worker. Talk about vague, unexciting, and un-motivating. Life is beautiful without alcohol. Miss the social side too. 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